Hello!
Schools been real busy lately, and alot has happened.
Somehow it seems like it's been months already, but in reality, a few weeks.
Think of it this way. Like a week. On a Monday you wake up. You feel as if Friday is so damn far.
After a couple of days (for me its Thursday). The week suddenly seems real fast. Next thing I know, its Sunday night. I'm going to moan on Monday again.
Real is only a matter of perception. - Peter Bishop, as Olivia's figment of imagination
Anyways (I dub this as the best kata hubung in English) Chinese New Year is here. A little too soon this year (usually its two weeks after this) as a result, although the holiday is still one week, but the actual CNY starts on Wed (Reunion) and then we have to go back to school on Monday (5th day of CNY).
At least we have the holidays. Owh, and a nice pile of homework to do, how thoughful.
Need to try to get on that Interlok book, now that the Ministry has given it a green light. Read only the Indian part.
So, here's to the year of the rabbit, happy chinese new year! (for fear I do not update until after that). Its going to be slow in the beginning, but really fast after that. Time is always like that. Like in a party. When you arrive, it all seems so cold, and awkward and odd. But by the time you have to leave, you don't feel like it. (if it's a good party that is) and also dinner's. Etcetc almost everything to do with social gatherings. and time.
Now hoppity hop is for the year of the rabbit. and now for just the way you are.
Yes I love that song.
But that's not the meat of the post here.
On facebook, mostly, and also I recall hearing other's say.
"2011 is the last year I'm going to stay a good girl"
Woah.
Not sure about other guys, but I'm quite sure I speak for quite a few, guys like good girls. Pure, good, sweet, etcetc....
=)
Why turn bad.
Well, perhaps it's because its so hard being a good girl, that at times you just wanna let go and go crazy, and have fun and not care?
Girls do have it harder than guys.
Still, I want to blog this, so that those that are still good girls, won't lose hope, or something, and then jump to the bad girl side.. (also, to leave my mark and move on)
It's understandable that being a "bad" girl seems so much more fun, clubs, drinking, hot guys and all.
But for me I guess its too much of a materialistic thing. and sometimes superficial.
Its all so closely associated to flings.
"A boy like that, wants on thing only, when he's done, he'll leave you lonely" - West Side Story. (gosh, nostalgia)
While the guys in that part may be hot, I can safely say only a fraction seek something more than sex.
So, I do hope, that no one will rush and quickly turn into a bad girl.
Though its understandable why.
(No one is stopping you from being your true self tho, and you don't exactly have to show your true self to everyone)
On a related case...
http://www.snopes.com/science/stats/thinksex.asp
Well, its not true, the 3 second thing or whatsoever.
I mean, like inception. Don't think of an elephant dancing around in a tutu.
(what are you thinking?)
similarly, the mentality, if i say to a guy, eh, did u know we guyss think of sick stuff every 3 seconds?
No. (i then count down, and then the experiment will fail, as the person is already self conscious and controlling his thoughts. or at least trying to)
Still, I must agree to the message given by "The Ugly Truth" that movie.
Guys, by general and natural biological setting, are "sick" at the core.
It's an instinct, to want to reproduce, and ensure the continuation of their kin.
While women are naturally configured to have one guy, and have that guy keep them secure.
Or something like that.
So, I can say (guys please don't disown me from the Guy's Clan) : all guys are mentally sick (on sex) at the core.
But of course, it is how well the guy controls himself and also present themselves as a gentleman.
I remember reading in Stephen King's -Cell- - He did say that, "Humans are savage by nature, that's why we invented religion, politics, and also status.
We all draw our moral lines in the sand - Peter Bishop (gotta like this Fringe Character)
I'm just saying, that the statement that guys frequently think sick, isn't wrong. But ain't all right either.
Anyway, its no reason to go all animal, or be obscene at all times.
Look, please no one think badly of me? hahahaha, very idle now, so my mind is working on such small things.
Speaking of which, I have a feeling I'll be blogging less.
Reasons being form 5 is busy, less computer time, and well, remember that I blog alot if I think alot, or am very cynical?
So, I'm gonna be blogging less. =)
Stay happy everyone.
Becuase somethings are not worthy of being sad of. =)
Before I sign out, here's a nice song, rediscovered it.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dRV1GDuervE
So nice.
Happy Chinese New Year!
(psst: forgetful guys, try to remember February 14)
