Now, here's what you're supposed to do, and please DO NOT spoil the fun. Copy and paste this into your notes, delete my answers, type in your answers and tag 20 of your friends here in Facebook to answer this.(YOU DON'T HAVE TO) Then see what happens.
If you're a guy - post this as "my kind of girl"
If you're a girl - post it as "my kind of guy"
To whichever gender you prefer, really.
DATE : 13/10/2010 Wednesday 5 PM
Right, thanks to Gee Keat for tagging me in this blasted things. I shall do them, with a twist. It's gonna be long. Up to you to read, tagged you because I think you might want to know, or may help you. or am interested. remove yourself if you want to, im fine with it. no offence taken.
1. Do you need him/her to be good looking?
Well, this is subjective. But in general terms, YES. Yet, good looking? Can't really define that. What may be pretty to you, may not be to me, like a diamond in the rough, or a glass filled half full, it really is based on how you see it, and is subjective. There isn't a generalisation for good looking. thats superficial.
2. Smart?
Well, smart, dumb? Who is to point fingers to judge? He may seem smart, but he might be a dumbass to me. So yeah, still, usually, when you like someone, I'm quite sure you won't call them Stupid , and mean it, that is. =)
3. Preferred age?
Again this doesnt matter. Seriously, okay maybe now, it's like an impossible phenomena and surprise that we have f5s with form 1s. Then again, when you go out to work. Doesnt really matter does it? By that time, we'll be all damned with superficiality that we judge their age by their physique. A kiddish mindset never hurts. Then again, call me old-fashioned. I'd prefer either same age. Or younger. Seen youung men with older women? Its a head turner. No need for that. Still, love, would transcend age.
4. Preferred height?
Lols. If I were to act wise, I'd say it doesnt matter. Love should transcend height too. Still, personally. As a guy, I'd prefer girls shorter than me, same height. (but if same height, and she wears high heels. sad) not that I'm close minded, just preference. Still, If a day really comes, and I have a tall patner. So be it. =) Worlds changing.
(This tag is getting very superficial to me now... starting to get bored)
5. How about sense of humor?
Yes. then again, in the correct amounts. Still, think about it, when you do like someone, this aint gonna be so important now will it. Else you wouldn't like the person in the first place. If you are 'infatuated' , everytihng will seem perfect. Even if she doesn't laugh at all, you might think she has a sense of humor. Still, generally speaking, I think all girls I've met so far (with that I mean, cross paths in life as friends, colleagues, etc) have a sense of humor. =) No issue here.
6. How about piercings?
Ears I guess. Tummy? lols, hey maybe I'll find that sexy, but I havent really though about it. So superficial. I myself, won't pierce though. Got enough poison and foreign substances in me already.
7. Accepts you for who you are?
Well, obviously. That is, of course, accepts me largely for what I am. Bad traits, should be changed. Whats the point of liking a girl that doesn't accept you for your core self? (Of course, many beta males are dumb enough to wait around, credit given to them, sad lot. It's okay, we're loyal I guess)
8. Pink hair?
You mean by highlights? sure why not. Superficial again. By the sides. I think it looks nice. A little LIGHT color on the sides. Especially when the hair's down. Then light makeup (base) never hurt. =) Oh, Like Ohmygawd, I feel odd suddenly, talking about high lights and makeup. XD But one thing, natural is best.
9. Mushy, or not?
Mushy? As in, romantis? Why not. Not always of course. Mushy, in a lovey dovey way, and also privately, never kills anyone. Still, contary to the movies. I think I'm like mushy-ier than other girls for now. :P
10. Thin or fat?
SUPERFICIAL!!!!!! But well, I would accept the person for who she is, so yeah. Not a biggie here. But no doubt, first impressions count. Because we are stupid organisms. Its an instinct sort of thing. For the sake of an answer. Somewhere In between
11. Black, Brown, Yellow or White (skin color)?
1 MALAYSIA. - Thats what Gee Keat said.
Now this. Not to say I'm a racist. But I'm kinda narrow minded on this for now. Chinese.
Still, love transcends this.
12. Long hair or short hair?
We're talking about preference are we? Well, long. And straight-ish, lil curly is also fine. And Let me add my question: Tied or Letdown?
Let Down. Beautiful. Girls are. =) but of course, this is superficial, and can be changed.
13. Plastic or metal?
Don't get this. I'm gonna take this to abstract terms. No I do not like fake girls. PLastic. Nice to look at etc, but deep down, plastic. Metal? cold solid metal? or hot iron? Cold heart? what can I do if I do like someone with a cold heart. To the extent I radiate my heart's warmth to try to melt her? to convert it to hot iron? whats the point. Nil for this question.
14. Smells good?
Not that I'm a sicko (actually, in basic sense, all guys are sickos) But girls all generally smell good to me. Especially when compared to guys. The fairer sex as they say. Perhaps its an instinct, but guys can remember the smell vaguely. (don't think sick please)
15. Smoker?
Nope. Wouldnt fall for her in the first place. But if you're talking about talent at smoking stuff (fish,meat,bbq) why not? XDXD
16. Drinker?
Well, little is fine. And what happens to people's consious when they are drunk is interesting. Not always though.
17. Girl/Boy-next-door type?
Actually what does that mean? Beautiful? Down to Earth? Natural? If so, yeah. Always visits your house? Lols, that isn't exactly a trait there.
18. Muscular?
Hey i heard that girls do not really show muscle (eg buff). So yeah, no preference here. (BEsides, Ima wimpy beta male, no right to expect :P)
19. Plays piano?
Hahas, So far almost every girl plays some instrument. Not a must. But why not. Besides. Visualising a girl playing some love song by the piano... yeah... lols.
20. Plays bass and/or acoustic guitar?
.... okay? lols, I have no expectations on this. The only Instrument I play .. (see next question)
21. Plays violin?
Again... (continue) ... is the computer. And I'm not particular about her computer knowledge either. Still, its a plus.
22. Sings very well?
I can't sing. And well, okay I guess. In terms of voice, or vocal. That is subjective right? I'm pretty sure people you love in such a way, have a very angelic voice to you.
23. Vain?
Makeup, manicure, pedicures? Well, its okay, but natural, is the ultimate beauty of a girl.
24. With glasses
?I am so not gonna base my kind of girl on spectacles, contacts or visual aids. Besides, I'm 4 eyes. So I don't mind.
25. With braces?
This is lame. Braces will be taken off some point later. As if I'm gonna make her keep her braces, because she-looks-cute-with-it. lame.
If you insist on an answer. Why not.
26. Shy type?
I guess its fine. Usually, it won't matter. Besides, even though we have girls screaming their independence. The norm is that guys make the first move. Not complaining. But this is the art where alpha males do better. ... ... ... (please notice the lonely dots.) .
27. Rebel or good boy/girl?
Well, I prefer the good type? This, may change. And some other traits may outshine this. But yeah. Good.
28. Active or passive?
What aspect? Active I guess. But not too much, passive too. haha, don't get what we are getting at so I'm standing on the lines that devides the 2.
29. Tight or bomb?
Any girl can do this. Tight? wear tight clothing. Bomb, be smoking hot? This doesn't matter. No preference. But well, its inner beauty that counts.
30. Singer or dancer?
Hahas, no special preference. But both of these are talents not hard to find within the fairer sex. I like both type though. Don't have also don't care.
(damn this thing is long, getting tired)
31. Stunner?
Not to other guys? To me, this 'girl' will always stun me, as it is with others. But not to the point where I hyperventilate and shut down. Thats infatuation. The stupid fake form of love. (which infatuation, I have defined)
32. Hiphop?
Music? We should have different interests, but still have so much in common? To be able to talk. Or not say anything, yet be comfortable with it. I guess. For the tag/record, I like hip hop, some of it. Nah, very little. Techno I like.
33. Earrings?
Pierce? I thought we were talking about my kind of girls, not my kind of earrings. Next.
34. Mr/Ms. count-my-ex-girlfriends/boyfriend-until-you-drop?
Now that is sad. Mrs.I-have-many-fails is fine, and that I understand. But the other type. No, you know, girls, lemme tell you something. The more boyfriends you have. The less attractive you are. Emotionally I mean. Physique, if you're hot, you're hot. Still, it doesn't make men want you more. In face, it paints the image of a slut. Of course it perfectly understandable you all are in the persuit of happy-ness. But we as weak, cacat-ed humans, will have such a mentality.
35. Dimples?
Well, its cute. =) not a must. But cute. Especially when smiling. Beautiful
(Forgive me If you feel disgusted. Those with a weak stomace should stop, don't want last nights dinner all over your keyboard, with hydrochloric acid. XD)
36. Bookworm?
A smart girl is a girl who reads. But we have no time in this fast world. A plus, but not a must. (Hey that rhymes!)
37. Mr/Ms. love letter?
Aww so romantic. I'm a guy, I'd prefer to be the one giving. And well, receiving replies? lols. I'll put a yes but not too much on this.
38. Playful?
At the right time. Yes. Hahas.
39. Flirt?
To me only? Or to other males? To me, why not. To others. Nope. Sad at times when we have girls winding guys all up, and leaving them hurt.
40. Poem writer?
A channel for creativity? Okay i guess.
41. Serious?
Again this applies to the right place, right time.
42. Campus crush?
This isn't my kind of girl question, should be in, what you epic heartbreaks. A crush, is infatuation. Which is artificial. Still, it may develop. Lets leave this open.
43. Painter?
All girls can draw. Sort of.
44. Religious?
Science and faith. Heard of the song? here: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RCZOGANCOKE
I'd stay with the same religion, eliminates potential issues. BUt love transcends this AGAN. so yeah. Both science and faith.
45. Someone who likes to tease people?
Hmm, its fine.
46. Computer games geek? Or internet freak?
My title.
47. Speaks 20 languages?
Nah, not required. Mandarin? english? As long as we both understand each other. Its the language I need. And well, body language. Hmm, I gotta master that. That way I can read people subconciously, whether they are lying. Or is interested or not.
48. Loyal or faithful?
BOTH! Really I must stress on this. refer End note
49. Good kisser?
Well, never tried. I guess, if its true love. Even a bad one is bliss. (Sparks fly, it's like electricity ... ^^)
50. Loves children?
Yes. Or at least is able to accept them.
Oh, we're done? finally. TIME: 6.24PM, was occupied for awhile.
Now, reflection.
Most of the answers are superficial, and can be changed. Ultimately it is inner beauty that counts. We, as beta males, can't stress this enough. I really don't see a point of a patner who is 'hawt' but can't do nothing with me (emotionally). Its a connection, an imprint (for the twilight readers), something, both must make happen to make it work. Something both must put in effort to. No point if its only by one person.
And loyal. Faithful. I hate people who cheat. Especially in such things. Its cheap. This is something hard to see in a girl nowadays.
And to all the beta males out there. It's okay. To be hurt when you see things you don't wanna see. ITs okay to feel like crap and emo and all. But to certain points. Don't be a control freak. Still. THats not hte point here.
Sometimes. It is just not worth it. One day, you are sure to realise. She's just not that into you. No point being hurt, when she doesnt really care. Her actions, its not entirely her fault. We the beta males are just easily mind - fu*ked.
And sometimes we put in too much. NEVER expect the equal equivalent. It won't happen.
So I advise. Care less. Yes. At times, you must not put in a whole heart. Thats too much. ITs not worth it. Giving it all, getting hurt. And you in a thinking frenzy.
See girls, thats why we see many guys who don't care. They at some point of their lives MAY have understood this, and killed all emotions. Which as a catalytic effect, may produce flirts. Thosee, who just want to have fun, maybe nest time, to just sleep with girls, and be gone, not commiting. Because some may have lost and got hurt, fell down. and not want to experience it again.
Its not your fault girls, partially that is. Just remember, be loyal, and faithful, guys too.
As for girls, let the guys know, what you are to her, some times. As much as it may seem like we don't give a damn, we do. Let htem know, that is, if you care, and also if you do like him too, that he is special to you. Save him from fu*king himself up.
Oh one more thing. If you get tired. Give up. Its hard. But its better than holding on like a sad fish out of the water. Sometimes. There is just no hope. No point. Its hard, but its better. (Of course, I don't mean immediately, but just realise, that she's just not that into you.) There'll be someone more worthy of you care. Love works both ways.
Many times, we're influenced by pop music, movies, literature. To the extent we forget, what we really feel.
Anyway, as constellation for both sexes. One day, she/he might find out what you are to them. And how important you are.
People always only treasure things, after they are gone.
So thats it for now.
(I'm sorry I lost my flo at the end note, awhile ago I had good ideas, but lost it thanks to the exams.)
This is still, generally, it.
*Please understand that this tag, was not done with reference to anyone in particular. Tho many of you will digress.
Things are usually, not what they seem. And I'm fine. Not emo, just spreading my thinking, hope it helps those who needs help. And answer their questions, indirectly.
* and yes, im not supposed to think of these things. too yound. study, but I have thought. What to do? This are the results of my thinking. Partially that is. I too too much eh?
I wish I could tag everyone, but I can't. spread the word, If you agree. Its on my blog too.
Take care. Ciao~ (lols I still think it sounds like time to chow,eat)
La La Lie.
WenChuan
- just another hopeless romantic. Ima Piscean fyi. :DD
Silent gratitude isn't much use to anyone - Gladys Bronwyn Stern
